the Dumper and the Reject

Again, this is a case sensitive blog...I know... I know,
I could get "chewed" by those whose egos have been badly hurt by their "dumpers"..
But hey! wait a minute!
There's always the 2 sides of the coin, right?
I really would like to know your honest and straightforward
answers as to how you feel about being the "Dumper" or the "Reject".
Most people have a hard time accepting the fact that their relationships died
because they were "dumped" (and only because it was too late for them to realize
{or did they ever?} that they could have done better to save whatever relationships
they were into,marriage, engagement or even plain sweethearts, whatever...whatever).
Needless to say, not too many "Dumpers" have the conscience to even feel sorry that
they had to do what they think what needs to be done,
because probably the situation was way beyond their tolerance...
The worse part is, when the relationship ended because one decided to be unfaithful,
or is it just this >> "You've Lost That Loving Feeling" thing?...Tsk!tsk! tsk!..
.I've heard from a lot of people that it seems harder for MEN to recover from being "dumped" than the WOMEN, specially if they loved their EX'(es) so much or spent too many years with them and had children by them.
Women, on the other hand, use all the coping mechanism (thank God for that gift!) and seem to move on with grace in that given situation.

However, there are other situations or inevitable circumstances where parting ways does not really involve being any of the personal mentioned above.
It is when two people decide to separate because over-all, it was the best thing to do.
It is a very painful situation, but love and respect remained up to the last moment.
I got a beautiful diamond "separation necklace" from my last relationship...
Have you heard of that? Unique, right?..It's a long story.